Children of all ages are capable of jealousy. Parents beware your First born was the centre of your universe until…………………..the Second one came almost unannounced (and encroached on the space that exclusively belonged to the older one.) The older child suddenly sees all the focus shifting from him/ her to the second child. It is a HUGE upheaval in the life of the older child!! Suddenly the child feels threatened by this INTRUSION.
All seeds may come from the same plant but they don’t always germinate into a plant.
Similarly all embryos from same couple may not culminate in a baby.
Almost 20%of all pregnancies end in abortions.
We only see children of others playing around ,we never see their abortions. And nobody talks about past abortions as they discuss children not abortions .
In short what I am saying is that world only gets to see what is on display.
Hence it is natural to feel depressed when you have a pregnancy loss.